How To Tell if a Friend is Alcohol Dependant
Thursday, October 30th, 2008I have a close friend who drinks two or three glasses of wine most nights. When we go out she rarely abstains from drinking, but never is visibly intoxicated. I have another friend who doesn’t drink at all during the week; alcohol is meant for chugging and pounding — not casually enjoying. She gets drunk every weekend. Alcohol isn’t necessary to function, but she doesn’t seem to enjoy social gatherings unless she’s taken a few shots beforehand. Both of my friends appear to be somewhat dependent upon alcohol, but for very different reasons. Is one of the two more negatively affected by their alcohol use, and is one more clearly addicted? How do the weights vary regarding functional dependence and binge drinking? How can I tell if a friend is in need of help?
“Alcohol dependence,” according to the NIAAA, “is a condition characterized by impaired control over drinking, compulsive drinking, preoccupation with drinking, tolerance to alcohol, and/or withdrawal symptoms.” Alcohol abuse is the next step in problem drinking and is defined by failure to fulfill major role obligations, social problems and/or hazardous drinking situations. Work suffers, motivation is stalled, friendships are weak, and sleep is altered.
But negative effects as such are not always clear when surveying a friends’ life. Research shows that analyzing childhood behaviors leads to understanding how people become alcoholics. Environmental factors in adolescence can lead to developmental disorders that spark addiction. Genetics also play a role in drug and alcohol behaviors, but like environmental conditions, there is no single direct route to addiction. Studies have shown a link between low serotonin levels and binge drinking, as well as blunted stress responses and increased consumption of alcohol.
Alcohol is a social substance, and the widespread perception of drinking as a societal norm impairs our ability to identify its negative impact on each others’ lives. Moreover, a clear prototype of an addict or abuser doesn’t exist. Although confusion is natural, even taking the time to consider your friends’ deep rooted problems is important, and an indicator of your desire to help and improve their lives. I don’t believe one of my friends is in worse shape than the other, but I will from now on consider their past and personal issues when trying to understand the role alcohol plays in their lives.




